Flirt Like A Pro

many think that girls have to be hot like pancakes to be really successful at flirting with a guy. seriously, says who? anybody can do it! what you need to do is to learn how to flirt with a guy correctly in order to impress him, you'd also wanna show that you have a liking for him; don't be surprised to find out that he likes you too!

i found these following flirting tips online, if you have your own style, just incorporate some of them here and i guarantee, you'll be irresistible! lol, so what are you waiting for?!

1. Appearance Consciousness

the most basic, first thing that you need to pay attention is your physical appearance. there's no need to dress provocatively, but you should wear something that looks confident, elegant, comfortable, and at the same time makes you feel you.

hygiene care, ladies. from the hair to the toes, make sure you're well groomed! do not overdo make-up ladies! you won't wanna look like the Joker ya? also, make sure you take initiative to make yourself smell good, look clean and make sure you shave, ladies! [IMPORTANT]

2. Are You Alone?

make sure you're alone! don't let the poor guy approach you in crowds and ensure that your friends or girlfriends aren't around you. like, hello do you want 10,000 pairs of eyes to be on you? or being bitched about? also, no man likes to be rejected in front of everyone.

give some thought! unless you're a bitch yourself then lol, what can i say?

3. Act Right

how to act flirty? there's 10 million tips on how to do so but i'll shall list down the few basic ones i can think of:

Eyes contact

the eyes can be the most effective tool for flirting. it's possible to make a guy's heart skip a beat by giving him a playful, lusty, or lingering stare. here is how to do it:

if you're walking by someone you've got the hots for, give him a 2-3 second stare and then slowly glance away (slowly, i repeat). make sure you smile just as you start to look away! he'll get it.

to add on, when you're talking to a guy you like, take a second to momentarily break away from his eyes and pause on his upper body or chest. let 2 seconds pass. then slowly move your eyes back up and make eye contact again. this sends him chills of excitement. he'll realise that you were checking him out...trust me, attention is good. (i don't personally like that take because it's like a hint telling him, "hey let's talk on the bed instead", unless you don't mind!)

Smiles & Laughter

a laugh and a smile are the sexiest things a female can wear. ;)

Magic Touch

learn to brush a guy in such a way that you send tingles up and down his spine. note: brush and grind are two totally different intentions! try not make it intentional, do not let the cat out of the bag! casually tap him while laughing, or hold his hand when you're nervous; it will give him a sense of manliness and you a touch sweetie pie [no pun intended!]

4. Start The Ball Rollin'!

having small talks work. make sure you know what you're talking. talk about what you have in common, talk about your surroundings, ask a question, ask for help, state an opinion. while talking, look into his eyes confidently and affectionately, not seductively.

5. Getting To Know Him

while having the light conversation, try to find out whether he is your type. if he is pushy, stop at the line you draw. if you feel otherwise, carry on with the evening. if he isn't your cup of tea, just excuse yourself politely from his company. remember you started the whole flirting, so make sure you aren't impulsive or aggressive.

here's the crucial point. if he's interested in you, don't just go immediately to be "BFF" or"boyfriend." start hanging out with him, become friends, progressively becoming best friends, until it proceeds to the next stage!

flirting does not necessarily makes you a big time bitch. neither does it make you look ugly or desperate, that's if you know your ropes well. it's just another good way to get closer to a person you fancy.

well well, now you know the moves, i wish you the best! hehe