i think people who commit suicide and succeeding it are pathetic. not to mention those who tried but failed to do so. i'm not mocking them, neither am i interested to hear their sorrows, the rage, the pain because their purpose are similar: to die.
suicidal is a despicable act, such that we did not only lost someone we love, we also lost a precious life. we exist for a reason, and that is to live a fulfilling and happy life. nevertheless, we do come across negativity: miseries, tragedies, obstacles...but every problems come with answers. (well most of it, unless you're talking about nasty math problems)
despite whatever reason, suicidal isn't the way to solve problems. all thanks to you, the problem goes to another person. who knows the problem you thought will be solved after you ending your life might just be passed on and on and on. trust me it'll still haunt you even if you're no longer around. all that guilt and shame, can you really live with it?
or it might be some love/family/money issue you're facing. if it's love, go find your family. if it's family, find your friends. if it's your friends, find your family. if it's money, earn more money and solve the issue. as cliche it might sound, i don't see a reason dying over a person or an unsolvable issue.
people commit suicide because they feel the pain, they felt that it's the end, they're guilt-ridden...blah. however in my honest opinion, people commit suicide because they're just plain lazy. well, think about it, they don't want more stress, they don't want pain, they don't want obstacles happening...they don't want everything!!! (okay maybe the exception for money)
slap your face and wake up. this is life, fuck it, live with it and overcome it. dying just makes you look like an idiot (oh wait, you're dead already does it even matter anyway?)
just live for your last breath, for your friends, your family, for love...even your teddy bear! at the end of the day, you'll know it's worth it.
PS: i have no idea if you know where i'm coming. food for thoughts.
this post is dedicated to kitson, my online friend of nearly 7 years counting - but for the day, throw it out of the window and celebrate, and as the year melts away bid a tearful farewell to old memories and face the new year with warm smiles and happy faces.
5 comments:
Agreed. Having dealt with a friend who tried to off herself this past weekend, I feel the same way.
I feel no sympathy for people who kill themselves. Its the cowards way out. The best part about life is enjoying the highs, living with the lows, and enjoying both of them once you get back to the middle.
Most people search for happiness. And when they do find it, they can't impose that kind of feeling to others. Meaning, most people are living in a world of their own chasing after experience that none other and they themselves can feel.
So, if suicide is a despicable act that bring happiness to the bearer, why not?
After all, they are all searching for something to ease to their mind.
suicide is when you live your life by running away and finally you give up..its the failure of one's mind...sad to c people give up so easily...
@topolk: exact sentiments!!!
@3point8: very true. don't you think the world is such a scary place?
@falcon: yes! what a pity to give up life!
Yes I do.
I think the world is a scary place to be in. I just hope that I what it takes to learn the life-skills so that its not as scary as I think it is now.
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